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I can't unmake your Bro a thing but I can do a lot else.

The things I have not brought up are more along the lines of the former. Shit you and everyone else in the world are incapable of makin' into things.

[ ergo: impossible. ]

What do you think is impossible?

Again, you wouldn't let me talk about bunk beds.

[So he doesn't buy Dave's impossible.]

Impossible is... It used to be things that require me to not be my shitty self. I haven't totally sunk on that lately, though. Some really bad failures, but it isn't total.

A guardian who thought about me like John's Dad and Rose's Mom thought about them.

[ he says it mostly to get dirk to shut up, because it is LITERALLY IMPOSSIBLE at this point in his life to have a guardian who just loves him and is there for him and puts him first to that degree, given 1) he has no guardian 2) this would literally require rewriting the past somehow to a degree even dave is incapable of and 3) how.

dave sounds mildly annoyed since he really, really didn't want to admit to that one but also: he wants dirk to stop going maybe it Isn't impossible when it really really super is. ]

[There's a pause.]

Sorry.

It's ok.

[ the annoyance simmers as he shrugs. ]

But that's the kind of thing I meant by "impossible" this time. I'm pretty sure you can't argue the point.

[ on a more important note: ]

What do you think is impossible now if not what you just said?

I.... thought you wouldn't want to hear about my request for a road trip when we get to the new world. Not because I think it's impossible, but because I thought you'd consider it something I couldn't guarantee so you would just get hurt hearin' about it.

Because I got mad the other time about promises.

[ yeah, that's. ok that's on him. ]

And because you got mad about bunk beds. Since it keeps hurting you when I bring these things up I'd like to eventually see happen, I figure you'd prefer it if I kept them to myself.

I don't know. [ a safe answer. ] Sometimes the things you say are things that are...too much. To be really real. Or there are other factors that wouldn't let them be.

[The frown comes back. They're too much to be real, or there are factors. Either way. Dave doesn't believe them.]

I promise they're things I really want.

I...promise I want them too?

[His fingers spread out and then curl back around Dave's hands. He doesn't know what else to say. What else is there to say? Dirk loves him. He is important to Dirk, no less than Jake and Roxy and Jane. He matters.

He doesn't know. Dirk pulls on the hands to keep them close to him. He tries to take comfort in their warmth.]

Okay.

I don't know what to do about the rest of it, for the record.

[ he's not sure it's even relevant at this point. ]

Me either.

[His thumb flickers over Dave's knuckles.]

The knives. They're making you feel unimportant. That's why you letting me decide everything scares me so much. It means letting you be less important, and I can't do that.

[ the motion actually gets dave to relax a hair, but he doesn't seem to register himself doing it. ]

I don't frequently feel important, so it's not a huge difference. [ it's a terrible joke that isn't even really a joke. ] I dunno, dude. My variety of control issues kinda clash with yours and other people's sometimes. It's a thing.

[Dirk notices, at least, and that's only part of why he continues. It's relaxing for him, too.]

That means yours get to take precedence at least some of the time.

[ dave's still not paying attention but it helps. rip. ]

I want to tell you shit. [ however: ] It's hard to work on tellin' everyone all the shit at the same time.

[ dirk is a hard enough level and adding other people complicates everything. ]

But I can't tell you things without workin' on other people concurrently without forcin' you to make a choice between sayin' shit or not. And that's not exactly fair.

[That's okay, Dirk will just help calm them both with mindless, repetitive gestures.]

The deck's been stacked against us since they hit go. My choice is not to say things.

I don't know how quick I can get it to work with other people. Not if you're still against just doin' it anyway and waitin' for my brain to catch up.

It's okay if it takes a long time. [But he looks at Dave.] It's okay if you want to do the other one, too, and there's somethin' to be said for learnin' how to be okay with a thing by doing it. My concern, though, is that it will just make you learn to be numb to it, which isn't actually okay. You can if you want, but I don't think it's the same thing.

[ that is a super fair concern since that is exactly what would happen in that case? dave is not well known for not using being numb to a thing as a coping mechanism. his eyes drop from dirk's face and he notices the hand thing. there's a pause but he doesn't pull away. ]

Isn't it gonna get in the way of shit for you if it takes me a long time?

It will mean I have to put some more work into managing a few of the issues me and Jake have because of our own baggage. I can handle that. It might even be for the best that I do, in a roundabout way.

[Dirk doesn't want to say too much of Jake's own problems, but what matters is making Jake know he's important to Dirk. Dirk would have to put a lot of work into that regardless.]

Taking a long time is okay. I know you worry about him, but it'll be okay with him too.

How the hell would it be for the best?

[ that sounds fake. ]

I think maybe I need to not take for granted that the people I love will know how much they matter to me without me putting special effort into demonstrating it and expressing it.

[You know.

Like with them.]

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