Zero is no contact. One is currently active. [Dave latching onto Dirk's wrist somehow?? counts in this scale?] Ten is a full body hold. Five is an arm around, the eight-nine range is cuddling. Pressing the face close happens about at six.

[This is. a dumb scale. He pauses.]

You could just say what is or isn't okay and what you want. Like if you want me to be a pillow again. [He wants to be the pillow...]