Hm. I'm not exactly a stranger to directly opposite issues in a romantic partner. If you ever decide you want to take another look at it, I'll listen to whatever.
[He does, after all, REALLY know his ropes when it comes to ruining relationships. He's very sure Rin and Karkat aren't going red and that if they did it would incite more relationship drama but. The gossip can stay elsewhere.
Close eyes, breathe.]
I think we have somewhat different ideas of what being given a choice means. Neither is wrong, but they stand to a certain degree in opposite corners. From what I understand, you think of choice as a freedom from having another's will imposed on you. Like I said, that isn't wrong. There is no choice if someone is making the decision for you. My idea of choice, on the other side, is the freedom to express your own will. That isn't wrong either, as obviously there's no choice involved if you aren't being given an opportunity to make a decision.
It does put us at a point of some confusion here, however. You're worried about whether or not I'm able to say 'no.' My worry is whether or not I'll be given the option to say 'yes.'
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[He does, after all, REALLY know his ropes when it comes to ruining relationships. He's very sure Rin and Karkat aren't going red and that if they did it would incite more relationship drama but. The gossip can stay elsewhere.
Close eyes, breathe.]
I think we have somewhat different ideas of what being given a choice means. Neither is wrong, but they stand to a certain degree in opposite corners. From what I understand, you think of choice as a freedom from having another's will imposed on you. Like I said, that isn't wrong. There is no choice if someone is making the decision for you. My idea of choice, on the other side, is the freedom to express your own will. That isn't wrong either, as obviously there's no choice involved if you aren't being given an opportunity to make a decision.
It does put us at a point of some confusion here, however. You're worried about whether or not I'm able to say 'no.' My worry is whether or not I'll be given the option to say 'yes.'