She told me to go tell you I know how to say no.

[ there were other things of course but not all of them even relevant to this. Or relevant but not like this. ]

Admittedly, there is a lot I would do for you and I don't hold myself as my highest priority. I'd like to think I can set the most important boundaries, but then our definitions of that may differ. Maybe we should work out what sorts of things we need each other to say no to.