It didn't, believe it or not. That doesn't mean it was easy, or that I didn't have to sometimes make some hard choices in the process. But it wasn't catastrophic by any means.
I think even when it comes to someone you love, there will be things about them that bother you, or that aren't perfectly compatible with you. Part of loving them is being able to work out those issues responsibly, and finding ways to address them.
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sometimes they seem like it but you do have to work at them
a LOT
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I think even when it comes to someone you love, there will be things about them that bother you, or that aren't perfectly compatible with you. Part of loving them is being able to work out those issues responsibly, and finding ways to address them.
But it's a LOT of work.
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i usually just try to kill every single part of me that isnt working out
but for some reason
this pisses people off
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It seems like it'd be so much easier to just make yourself perfect and then it'd be fine, wouldn't it.
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before like i wasnt good enough about lying about it
one time
people are terrible
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hes the one shining point of purity in every universe