Though, I suppose that is why I in turn became defensive, and why it sounded as though I was dismissing and adamantly telling you how wrong it was to think that way.
I do not wish for anyone to be in anything close to that situation, Dave. So you can understand my hesitation when I heard of how you've been living your life.
Edited (kei really overshares sometimes but doesn't need to right now, hahaha) 2018-03-12 22:39 (UTC)
ive never taken on any wound that i havent fully accepted and gone into knowingly sometimes people cant or dont care about you the way you care about them but i think itd hurt also to try to cut out the part of you that gives a fuck about them so its just a matter of what it is you want to do about it love them or leave them
the choice shouldnt be made for people in either direction maybe
Perhaps not. And perhaps, if you can look at everything and say you're happy and content, I cannot say anything. Indeed, I shouldn't say anything. Hold onto the wounds that you've accepted. They shall be what give your life meaning. But I believe you already know that to be true.
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Though, I suppose that is why I in turn became defensive, and why it sounded as though I was dismissing and adamantly telling you how wrong it was to think that way.
I do not wish for anyone to be in anything close to that situation, Dave.
So you can understand my hesitation when I heard of how you've been living your life.
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sometimes people cant or dont care about you the way you care about them
but i think itd hurt also to try to cut out the part of you that gives a fuck about them
so its just a matter of what it is you want to do about it
love them or leave them
the choice shouldnt be made for people in either direction maybe
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And perhaps, if you can look at everything and say you're happy and content, I cannot say anything.
Indeed, I shouldn't say anything.
Hold onto the wounds that you've accepted.
They shall be what give your life meaning.
But I believe you already know that to be true.
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i should maybe bail and go check in with my roommate
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Thank you for talking to me so long.
I feel it has been enlightening for me, as well.
Take care.
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