hm well if you notice there are traits about people that you like or think or theyre cute or oh they make me happy lmk what they are and i will keep an eye out and obviously if you get a crush i can wingman even more specifically somehow
so we can cross off soulless music haters from both our lists
lmao shit im trying to think of what all i even like i guess i like people who dont expect me to always know whats up like i dont have to be in charge of everything not that im not in charge but people who let you go at your own pace i guess and dont expect you to handle every aspect of the relationship solo
i mean yes? i guess thats accurate like id prefer to be friends with anyone i date you know best friends is even better the other stuff is all secondary i suppose
i think everyone is allowed to be a little shallow i mean shrugs you cant help what youre attracted to or not attracted to really and i think forcing it would be unfair on everyones parts
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i mean you can think about it for more than five seconds el
do you swing either way or just one specific way
i just realized i dont even fucking know
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If it helps, I'm not sure either?
Which I guess is a weird answer but
I've had to think about it recently so
IDK
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hm
well
if you notice there are traits about people
that you like or think
or theyre cute
or oh they make me happy
lmk what they are and i will keep an eye out
and obviously if you get a crush i can wingman even more specifically
somehow
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Dial-a-wingman?
I guess eyes?
I feel like I usually notice eyes before anything else.
What about you anyway?
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so many options
what about me
like
what do i like
?
i like a sense of humor
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...
Everyone likes a sense of humor dave.
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?
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I guess put that on my list.
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i couldnt date someone who wasnt down with like
at least pretending to appreciate music
but hopefully it would not be pretend
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Since they clearly have no soul.
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lmao shit im trying to think of what all i even like
i guess
i like people who dont expect me to always
know whats up
like
i dont have to be in charge of everything
not that im not in charge
but people who let you go at your own pace i guess
and dont expect you to handle every aspect of the relationship solo
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You want a partner.
And a best friend
Whom you want to make out with?
I can think of a lot worse than that.
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yes?
i guess thats accurate
like id prefer to be friends with anyone i date you know
best friends is even better
the other stuff is all secondary i suppose
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Let's say the same thing for me
Plus nice eyes
And a pretty smile
....
Also, not fat.
What I am allowed to be a little shallow!
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i mean
shrugs
you cant help what youre attracted to or not attracted to really
and i think forcing it would be unfair on everyones parts
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Tried that last fall with a boy in my class who asked me out
Wound up dumping him like a week later.
He just
Was sort of dumpy.
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since idk
i think id probably be honest about it
maybe
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I guess I didn't want to hurt his feelings
Or maybe he deserved a chance
I don't know
It just ended up being really awkward.
Won't make that mistake again I hope.
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i have no idea what its a matter of
actually developing feelings for a person probably
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Maybe I'll try that next time.
:P
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you have to be nice to your cowingperson
its the law
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Hm
Not sure I know how to be nice and not tease, thinking about it.
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I'd hate to think we were suddenly normal.
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