I didn't say it was. [ just that it's normal not to be first place for someone forever. ] All I'm sayin' is that "everything" isn't a possibility when neither of us can give the other that, and when we've both given up things we used to have of one another and in certain cases have made it impossible to get those things back.

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And that isn't bad, it's just somethin' we both have to accept and get used to and not...care about. I sulked about it like, for the space of one thing and then accepted it as the new normal. I figured you already had as well.