That doesn't mean we have to go about causing them blindly. I'm not tryin' to force your hand here, just... can you see it flipped turnways? If you were hurtin' me and didn't know it. You'd want to know so you could stop. I know that's exactly the position you don't want to put me in, but in terms of ethics it's also why I'm insisting it isn't morally wrong for you to tell people. This is sort of a theoretical point, I guess, but it's an important one.
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